Wamenya ute impano yawe?
Wamenya ute impano yawe?
Kumenya impano yawe ni urugendo rudasaba igisubizo gifatiyeho, ahubwo bisaba kwisuzuma, kwigerageza no kumva ibikunyura mu buryo bwihariye. Dore uburyo wakwifashisha kugira ngo utangire kuyimenya:
- Wibaze ibi bibazo by’ingenzi:
Ni iki nkunda gukora, n’iyo ntari guhembwa?
Ni iki abantu bakundaga kunshimira nkiri umwana?
Iyo ndi mu kintu runaka, ni ryari numva ko igihe gihita ntakibimenye (flow state)?
Ni irihe jambo abantu bakoresha bansobanura? (umuhanga, uganira neza, utega amatwi, wihangana, udasanzwe, n’ibindi)
- Gerageza ibintu bitandukanye
Impano ntizivukira mu mutwe gusa, ahubwo uzimenya uko witoje kugerageza:
Itondere ibyakunyuze mu byo wakoze mu mashuri, mu mirimo, mu bikorwa by’abakorerabushake, cyangwa mu gihe cyo kwidagadura.
Fata umwanya uge ukora ibintu utari usanzwe ukora: kwandika, kuririmba, gufotora, gutegura ibiganiro, gukora ubushakashatsi, gufasha abandi, guhanga udushya, n’ibindi.
- Reba aho ubushobozi bwawe buhurira n’ibyifuzo byawe
Impano ituruka mu bintu ushoboye gukora neza, ariko bigasaba ko ubyumva nk’impamo: ikintu gituruka imbere kandi kikagufasha guhora ushishikaye kugikora.
Urugero: Ushobora kuba ushoboye kuvuga neza mu ruhame, kandi ukabikunda. Ibyo bishobora kuba impano yawe y’itumanaho cyangwa ubuyobozi.
- Baza abandi uko bakubona
Abantu bakuzi neza bashobora kukubwira impano utari uzi:
Baza inshuti zawe, umuryango cyangwa abarimu uti: “Ni iki mubona nkora neza cyane ku buryo mubona nabigiraho umwuga cyangwa ubuzima?”
- Gusenga / gutekereza cyane (reflection)
Impano nyinshi zijyana n’icyerekezo cy’ubuzima. Igihe ufashe umwanya wo gusenga, gutekereza cyangwa kwandika ku nzozi zawe, wibaza impamvu Imana cyangwa ubuzima byaguhaye ibi bintu runaka, bishobora kugufasha kubona umurongo.
- Koresha ibikoresho bimwe bifasha kwisuzuma
Hari ibikoresho byagufasha kumenya impano cyangwa imiterere yawe, nka:
16 Personalities (MBTI) (uburyo bwifashishwa mu kumenya neza imiterere ya muntu, bikaba bifasha kwimenya, guhitamo umurimo ukubereye, kumva uko wakorana neza n’abandi, kwisobanukirwa no guteza imbere impano yawe)
StrengthsFinder (Igikoresho gikusanya amakuru ku miterere yawe gifasha kumenya imbaraga zawe kamere (impano karemano), kugira ngo ubeho ubuzima wubakiye ku byo ukora neza kurusha.”)
Enneagram (uburyo bwo kwimenya bushingiye ku byiciro icyenda by’imiterere ya muntu. Butuma umuntu amenya uko atekereza, yumva, yitwara, icyo akeneye cyane n’uko yitwara mu gihe afite ubwoba cyangwa ari mu kuri.)
Ikigai (guhuza: icyo ukunda, icyo usabwa, icyo ushoboye n’icyakugirira inyungu).
Impano yawe ni aho ubuhanga bwawe, ibyishimo byawe n’icyo ushobora gufasha abandi bihurira. Iyo uyimenye, ubuzima buba nko kuririmba indirimbo ikubereye. Ariko ntugomba kumenya byose ako kanya, ujya ubanza kugerageza, ukavunika rimwe na rimwe, ariko buri gihe ukagira icyerekezo.
