Ese uwo wita inshuti yawe aba ari inshuti yawe bya nyabyo? Cyangwa we bamubajije yavuga ko atari inshuti yawe!

Ese uwo wita inshuti yawe aba ari inshuti yawe bya nyabyo? Cyangwa we bamubajije yavuga ko atari inshuti yawe!

 

Tumenye abo turi kumwe neza bizadufasha kumenya uko tugomba kubitwaraho. Iga guha ubuzima bwawe inzira ya nyayo.

Hari akamaro ko kumenya abo turi kumwe neza, kuko si buri wese wiyita inshuti yawe cyangwa ugaragara nka mugenzi wawe uba ari we koko.

 

Inshuti nyakuri: Inshuti si uwo mumenyeranye gusa cyangwa mubana buri munsi. Inshuti nyakuri ni uwo uhamya kandi na we akaguhamya, aho bamubajije akavuga ati “Yego, ni inshuti yanjye.” Ni umuntu uguhagararaho mu gihe cyiza no mu gihe kibi.

 

Kwimenya no kumenya abo uri kumwe: Iyo umenye abo uri muri kumwe, umenya uko ubitwaraho, uko ubafata, n’icyo witeze kuri bo. Ibi bituma udashyira umutima wawe wose ahantu hose hatizewe.

 

Hari abantu bakwereka ko bagukunda cyangwa bakugaragariza urugwiro nyamara bagufitiye undi mugambi. Si buri wese uguseka aba akwishimiye.

Hari abigira inshuti ariko iyo ubabaye ntibakugarukira, ahubwo bashyigikira abagutoteza.

 

Iga guha ubuzima bwawe inzira ya nyayo” bisobanuye ko tugomba gutekereza neza no guhitamo inzira igana ku byiza n’iterambere. Ibi bikaba ari ingenzi mu gucunga neza abantu tuba turi kumwe nabo, kuko twagira amahirwe yo kubaho mu bwisanzure, amahoro n’ubuzima bufite intego. Aha ni ho ukuri, ubwenge, n’ubushishozi bikoreshwa kugira ngo twirinde ingorane.

 

N’iyo waba ufite inshuti cyangwa abakunzi benshi, gukoresha ubushishozi mu kumenya ko bakuri inyuma, bituma utajya mu bibazo, kandi byagufasha kugabanya agahinda cyangwa no kutakagira kuko uba waramenye uko ugomba kwirindira ubuzima.

 

“Menya abo muri kumwe”

Hari abavuga “inshuti yanjye”,
Nyamara ku rundi ruhande barakugambanira bucece.

Inshuti si iyo mugendana gusa, ni iyumva igihe ucecetse, ntinakuzanaho amahane.
Ni iyo uhamya mu byishimo, ikakugumaho no mu muruho n’imiborogo.

Ntiwibeshye ku masura, ahubwo wumve imitima. N’ubwo umuntu aseka, ntibivuga ko akwifuriza ineza, shishoza, ube maso, kuko si bose bagusabira isengesho.

Iga guha ubuzima bwawe inzira ya nyayo, ihozeho ukuri, wirinde amayeri y’abanyabinyoma.
Ugendere mu mucyo, n’inzira zawe zibe iz’amahoro.

 

Nta bantu babana batagira aho batandukira cyangwa ngo bagire icyo batumvikanaho. Gushwana ni ibisanzwe, ariko si byiza kubigira urwitwazo rwo guhemukirana.

 

“Inka ikamwa litiro 20 ikituriza, Inkoko itera igi rimwe umudugudu wose ukabimenya”
Ni urugero rugaragaza ko hari abantu bakora ibintu bikomeye mu bwitonzi (nko gukama litiro 20 bicishije bugufi), ariko abandi, bakora akantu gato bakagatangariza isi yose. Umuntu aba agomba kugira uburere bwo kutirata, ahubwo ugakora ibikomeye atagambiriye amashyi.

 

Tugire umutima nk’uw’inka ituje, dukore iby’ingenzi tutari abashaka amashyi.
Twemere ko umuntu ataba mwiza buri gihe, ariko aharanira kuba we, atavogerwa n’andi majwi.

 

Icyigisho gikomeye:

• Ibikorwa bikomeye ntibisaba urusaku, bisaba umurava n’ubupfura.
• Twige kuvuga amagambo yubaka, y’umugisha, y’ukuri.
• Tumenye ko n’abantu beza bashobora kugira ibyo batumvikanaho, ariko ntibibabuze kubana mu mahoro.

 

Niba ukeneye kumenya neza koko ko uwo wita inshuti yawe ari inshuti yawe y’ukuri bikanakubera gutyo koko, hari ibyo ugomba kwirinda no kureberaho neza ko abo wita inshuti zawe baba koko arizo.

 

Irinde abantu bashobora kuvuga amagambo atari meza cyangwa bakoresha ururimi rwubaka ibibazo, kandi bagatera abandi guhangayika, umunabi cyangwa kwishima gake. Aba bantu batifuriza abandi ibyiza bashobora kuba ari abashaka guhungabanya amahoro n’umutekano w’abandi, cyangwa bishimira kubona abandi badakora neza cyangwa batishimye.

 

Umwihariko w’abantu batifuriza abandi ibyiza ni uko bakunze kuba bafite imyumvire cyangwa ibitekerezo bibi, kandi bashobora kwitwaza ibintu byabaye cyangwa ibyiyumvo bitari mu nyungu rusange. Ibi bituma bagira ingaruka mbi ku bantu bari mu buzima bwabo. Imvugo y’ubugome cyangwa y’ubwirasi ishobora kuba ikintu gikomeye cyo guhangana, kandi igihe umuntu abivuze, bishobora gutera ibibazo ku mutima w’undi muntu cyangwa ku buryo yitwara mu buzima bwe.

 

Buri gihe ni ingenzi kwirinda umuntu nk’uyu, kuko gukora ibintu bibabaza cyangwa kutifuriza abandi ibyiza bishobora guteza ingaruka mbi mu buzima bw’abandi. Gusa, ni byiza guhora ushyira imbere ibitekerezo byiza, gukora ibikorwa byiza, no gufasha abandi, kuko bituma tugira ubuzima bwiza kandi buhamye. Bityo no muri abo ubona ko wita inshuti zawe kandi mu by’ukuri atari zo, igihe ubishoboye ukaba wabagirira neza ariko ubazi neza ko nta kiza bakwifuriza.